Why Fathers Benefit From Parenting Workshops?
Parenting is one of the most important jobs in the world, and it can also be one of the most challenging. It’s important to note that parenting is an ever-evolving journey. That’s why fathers need to learn and never stop learning. One of the ways of learning is from parenting workshops that are designed to equip parents with new skills and strategies for raising happy and healthy children.
Becoming a father for the very first time is a life-changing experience, and it is normal to feel overwhelmed. By attending a parenting workshop, you can learn about the basics of child development and care, as well as how to bond with your new baby. Then, as your child grows, your learning must progress in tandem so that you will be able to help your child through the transitions in life.
All responsible fathers are doing their best. And that’s all we should do until, in the words of Maya Angelou, we “know better. Then, “when you know better, do better.” This statement can be applied to almost every area in life – work, parenting, hobbies, and life in general. Nearly all the attendees of the workshops I conduct report that they have learned something new. I also help them debunk many misconceptions. For example, the reason why kids behave badly isn’t because of a lack of will, but rather a lack of skill. I help them learn new strategies to help them better manage their emotions and behaviour. I also emphasise the importance of setting clear boundaries and expectations. Finally, I help them recognise their own strengths and weaknesses.
Parenting workshops can help fathers build stronger relationships with their children. This can lead to a more happy and fulfilling family life for everyone involved. Fathers can also learn to better understand their children’s needs and develop better communication skills.
In addition to the benefits mentioned earlier, attending a parenting workshop can also be a great way for fathers to connect with other fathers and build a support network. Parenting can be isolating at times, but knowing that you are not alone and that there are other fathers who are facing similar challenges can make a big difference. If you are a father, I encourage you to consider attending a parenting workshop. It can be a valuable investment in your own parenting skills and in your relationship with your children.
By Parcsen Loke, Family Life Coach, Centre for Fathering.
Food for Thought: What is one thing that you wish someone had told you about parenting before you became a parent?