Category: Guiding your child

Practical help with discipline and boundaries, screens, building independence and resilience, and your child’s wellbeing. See every topic on the Resources page.

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Children's wellbeing and mental health

How to Talk to Your Child About Bullying

“I was bullied in school…” That is the last thing any parent wants to hear from their child at the end of a school day. Sadly, with multiple bullying incidents surfacing online in recent months, we as parents need to know how to speak to our children about this topic and equip them with the

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Guiding your child

How To Be A Coach To Your Kids

Dads, here’s how you can become a coach to your kids – by embracing these key approaches and strategies: 1. Active Engagement: Engage in open communication and spend quality time with your children. Actively listen to their concerns and interests, and provide guidance and support when needed. 2. Teaching Life Skills: Teach your kids important

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Guiding your child

Do Your Kids Have Too Much Screen Time?

There is no dispute that Singaporean kids are spending way too much time on their digital devices. How did we get here? In Singapore, 8-12 year olds spend an average of 35 hours a week in front of their screens for entertainment alone. That’s 3 hours more than the global average. This is a concerning

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Discipline and boundaries

When You Catch Your Child Lying

Every child lies from time to time. What should parents do if they catch their child lying? Use these strategies for what to do when your child lies to help children understand the importance of telling the truth. The desire to lie does not make your child a bad person, nor does it indicate a

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Guiding your child

Why Parents Love Handsfree Parenting?

Handsfree parenting is a popular parenting approach in the digital age, where parents use digital devices to engage and occupy children. In today’s world, with the prevalence of smartphones, tablets, and video games, this style of parenting has gained significant popularity among parents for several compelling reasons. Why is handsfree parenting so popular among today’s

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Guiding your child

Stop Telling Your Children What To Do

Parents often find ourselves caught in the crossfire of conflicting parenting advice. The truth is, there is no one-size-fits-all answer, as every child is unique and requires a tailored parenting style. However, there is one common pitfall that we should all strive to avoid: over-directing our children. While it may seem counterintuitive, telling children what

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Discipline and boundaries

Solve Problems With Your Children

Parennts play a crucial role in our children’s lives, shaping their character, guiding their development, and fostering their resilience. When it comes to parenting, one approach that has gained significant recognition for its effectiveness in addressing challenging behaviours is Collaborative Problem Solving (CPS), developed by Dr. Stuart Ablon. CPS emphasises collaboration and shared responsibility between

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Discipline and boundaries

Are You Disciplining Or Punishing Your Child ?

Punishment and discipline are two different approaches to correcting children’s misbehaviour and it is important that parents know the difference between them. Here are four key differences between punishment and discipline: 1. Focus: Punishment focuses on the past behaviour, while discipline focuses on the future behaviour. 2. Goal: Punishment aims to stop the behaviour or

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Discipline and boundaries

3 Things That Make Discipline Effective

In the realm of disciplining children, it’s paramount to strike a balance between fairness, firmness, and consistency. These three principles are the cornerstones of successful child discipline, creating an environment where children can learn, grow, and thrive. Let’s delve into why applying fairness, firmness, and consistency is crucial in child discipline and how they harmonise

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Guiding your child

How Doing Chores Changes Your Child’s Future

You can make a big difference in your children’s future by asking them to take out the trash, do the dishes, make their beds and pack up their rooms. If your kids are not doing chores at home, it is time to start! I will share with you three reasons why doing chores benefit children.

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