Author Archives: Resource Team

Why Kids Should Play Outside?

Let’s talk about play and here are five crucial ways playing outside can help your child: Sunshine. Yes, sun exposure can increase the risk of skin cancer. But it turns out that our bodies need the sun. We need sunlight to make vitamin D, which plays a crucial role in bone development. Sun exposure also […]

Benefits of Free Play

Would you let your five-year old run an errand like going to the grocery store alone? Or do you think children at this age are not ready to be this independent. A few years ago, Mediacorp ran a Singaporean version of the Japanese hit series Old Enough! The series featured 20 preschoolers, aged two to […]

How Mark Twain’s Father Became Smarter

Teenagers are known to be very opinionated and argumentative. They seem to believe that they know everything and that their parents are unintelligent. That was how 14-year-old Mark Twain felt about his father. Seven short years later, he was impressed at how much his father had learned. In reality, it wasn’t the father who had […]

Helping Teens Make Wise Decisions

During adolescence, children begin thinking about what they want to do when they go out on their own. They compare themselves to ideals, and they explore different careers. They also begin to make different life choices than they see their parents making. At this time, it’s healthy for them to set important goals for the […]

When Your Teen Has A Different Opinion

How often do you have arguments with your teen? Do they usually become intense and end abruptly in anger? Do you wish that your conversations could be calmer and more civil? If you do, here’s what you must do. It is reasonable to expect that every person will have their own perspective on something, and […]

Xander Ong On Taking CFF Forward

On 1 October 2023, Xander Ong will take over as CEO of Centre for Fathering. Get to know Xander in this article.  Xander Ong and his wife have a son who was born in early 2023.    Not one to shy away from going deep into his own personal perspective of fatherhood, Xander shares his own experience of his […]

How To Produce A Rebellious Teen?

I’m sure you’ve heard of the rebellious adolescent. You either have one at home now or will soon. Do you know what causes adolescent rebellion? Raging hormones are not to blame. The teenage years can be strange and difficult for your child. He has been wanting independence since he was two. And now that he’s […]

Can We Really “Balance” Work and Life?

Recently, the CEO of DBS, Mr Piyush Gupta, revealed that he believes that work-life balance is “baloney”. His rationale is that “work is a part of life,” and, in that sense, there is no way to balance work and life. The comment he made prompted me to answer many fathers’ questions about work-life balance. Work-life […]

Raising Your Children To Be Independent

Do you want your child to grow into an independent adult one day? Who doesn’t want that, right? How you can do that is most likely what you think you should do.  It is common thinking among parents that If a child is too attached to his (or her) parents, he will have a harder […]

Malay Muslim Fathering Month to Strengthen Father’s Role in Families

Kicking off the sixth edition of the Malay Muslim Fathering Month (Bulan Kebapaan) is Jamming With Dad – a platform for fathers and children to bond over music and performing. The event took place on 2 September 2023 at Nee Soon Central Community Centre, where five groups of fathers and children performed. Heartiest congratulations to […]